告别单身 七招帮你将朋友变成恋人(双语)

　　如果你跟她很亲密，直接暗示你喜欢她，要么干脆表白吧。有时候她或许跟你想的一样，只是担心表白了就做不成朋友才嘴上不承认而已。

　　Note that most relationships start out as friends。

　　5. Go for the kill. By now you are ready to ask her out on a date. The best way to do this, ask her out at an event where you're likely to be a very important figure in the room, for example, your birthday party. Take her outside or somewhere quiet, where the two of you can be alone, pull her in close, look her dead in the eye and say, "Would you like to go out some time?" She'll know its not on a friendship term。

　　3. Be Bold. This is probably the reason why you got stuck in the friend zone in the first place. Let her know how amazing you think she is (but don't overkill it)， live in the moment, when you’re out compliment her on her physical features, for example "You always look great, but tonight you're figure in that dress...... simply flawless."

　　4. Flirt more. Start flirting a little more. Learn the art of kino, touch her more, especially when flirting. But don't just flirt with her, flirt with other women especially in her presence (don't overkill though)， let her see other women desire you, in doing this you are leveling the playing field, allow her to think you're interested in other women, it displays confidence, she'll respect you。

　　Compliment him/her often. For things you actually like, the reasons why you like being his/her friend。

　　Maybe suggest going out some time to see his/her reaction.。。

　　7. If you're close with her, hint that you like them or straight out tell them. Most of the time they will feel the same way, even if they don't want to admit it because some people are afraid of losing a great friendship. But most of the time a great friendship is a great relationship. It's just the transition between the two and the fear of losing the friendship that usually gets in the way。

　　或许你可以试着约他/她出去玩，看看反应如何……

也许正是因为缺乏勇气，你俩才会从一开始就只是朋友关系。请告诉她你是多么欣赏她(但别夸大其辞)，赞美此时此刻的她。比如当你俩在一起时，夸夸她的外貌，说：“你总是这么漂亮，今晚穿这身裙子简直无可挑剔哇！”

　　Just be casual and subtle, because if you all of a sudden change your behaviour you may freak them out, they like you for you so don't be someone else。

　　多多地赞美他/她。实打实地告诉他/她你喜欢什么，告诉他/她你为什么喜欢跟他/她做朋友吧。

　　记住：很多恋人一开始也是从朋友做起的。

　　Remember to actually talk to them, though even if they deny liking you they may be shy...actions speak louder than words so watch their body language。

　　是不是跟那个自己希望能共度浪漫时光的人还处在“朋友阶段”？下面就教你如何让心仪的人对你来电。

　　THE CLOCK TEST: If you feel like he or she's been watching you, suddenly look at the clock then quickly look at him/her. If they're looking at the clock then it's because they were watching you and following your eyes is a natural reflex to a sudden change of movement。

　　时钟测试：要是你感到他/她在看你，那就试试突然抬头看钟然后又转头看他/她。如果他/她也抬头看钟，说明他/她刚才确实在看你。

千万别光顾了要成为恋人而忘了要朋友，这样你不仅可能吓到她，还会损失友情。

　　Tips

　　亲密接触。若想跨越朋友阶段，最好的办法就是亲密接触。俩人约会的时候，牵着她的手，搂着她的腰，留意她的反应；要是她没推开你，说明她也喜欢与你这样亲密接触哦。

　　拿出行动。关系发展到这个阶段，你就可以跟她约会了。最好带她一起参加能让你显得比较重要的活动，比如你的生日派对。带她到外面或安静点的地方，就你和她，然后拉过她、看着她的眼睛，说：“愿不愿意什么一起出去玩玩？”她定能意会到友谊之外的情意。

　　贴士建议：

　　2. Carry on being a good friend. Don't just stop all friendly things with her and become this new flirty guy. You'll creep her out and lose her friendship。

　　耐心。别想当然以为，既然你俩是朋友，只要你直接向她坦白她就愿意接受；相反，你应该潜移默化地让她明白你的心。为避免碰壁，还是先从对自己有利的小事做起吧。